Secure Love
The Full Reset
A complete deep-dive into your attachment patterns — with a 5-day guided workbook, 6 hypnosis sessions, and somatic tools to move you from anxious to anchored in love.
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- 5-Day Stop Spiraling Workbook
- 6 guided hypnosis sessions (20–26 min each)
- Daily relationship practices & rituals
- Deep-dive journaling prompts
- Nervous system regulation toolkit
- Trigger Reset Cheat Sheet + progress tracker
- Lifetime access to all materials
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The Audio Series
Your 6 Hypnosis Sessions
Each session is 20–26 minutes — deep enough to take your nervous system somewhere new, and powerful enough to shift how you relate to love.
Day 1
Calm the Trigger Response
Immediate nervous system downregulation
Day 2
Release Relationship Anxiety
Softens emotional urgency and panic
Day 3
Stop the Overthinking Loop
Quiets mental spiraling and analysis
Day 4
Return to Self-Trust
Re-anchor internal safety and confidence
Day 5
Respond from Your Secure Self
Install a new relational identity pattern
Bonus
Detach from Fear-Based Thoughts
Break identification with reactive stories
How It Works Together
Your Day-by-Day Journey
Each workbook day pairs with a specific hypnosis session. The workbook shifts how you think. The audio shifts how you feel. Together they rewire the pattern at every level.
Workbook
This Isn't You — It's the Pattern
🎧 Hypnosis
Calm the Trigger Response
Workbook
Pause the Emotional Surge
🎧 Hypnosis
Release Relationship Anxiety
Workbook
Question the Story, Not Yourself
🎧 Hypnosis
Stop the Overthinking Loop
Workbook
Come Back to Self-Trust
🎧 Hypnosis
Return to Self-Trust
Workbook
Become the Secure Version of You
🎧 Hypnosis
Respond from Your Secure Self
Workbook
Standalone
🎧 Hypnosis
Detach from Fear-Based Thoughts
Transformation Stories
"I'd tried therapy for years but nothing shifted my nervous system the way these sessions did. By day 10 I genuinely stopped checking my phone every 5 minutes waiting for him to text."
Danielle H.
Full Reset Graduate
"The workbook alone is worth 10x the price. I finally understand why I do what I do in relationships — and I have actual tools to change it."
Christine B.
Full Reset Graduate

Meet Your Guide
Kelly Bearer
MA, LPC, ACHT — Founder, Boulder Hypnotherapy Institute
I created Secure Love after working with hundreds of women who were high-achieving and grounded in every area of life — except love. In my 20+ years as a Licensed Professional Counselor and Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist, I've seen the same pattern over and over: smart, capable women who lose themselves the moment a relationship triggers something old. My approach is trauma-informed, subconscious-focused, and built around a belief I hold deeply: secure love isn't something you stumble into. It's something you learn to embody from the inside out.
Questions About the Full Reset
Ready to Rewire?
Your nervous system already knows how to feel safe. The Full Reset teaches the rest of you to catch up.