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The Wounds of Love

Heal Your Relationships Online Course

Heal Today!

A Transformational Hypnotherapy Journey to Heal Relationship Patterns

(Once and For All)

5-Session Video Course

$399

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Identify Your Relationship Patterns

Uncover Your Relationship Shadow

Heal Your Love Wounds

The Road to Healthy Love

Working with Kelly has given me the tools and insight to make real progress on a number of life long struggles. Kelly’s empathy, insight, skill, and focus are second to none. I was ready to give up hope before we started working together and now I greet my days with clear-eyed joy. If you are ready to move beyond looking at symptoms and tackle your struggles at their most basic level, I couldn’t recommend a finer guide.

Joe R.

Do you struggle with an abandonment wound?

 

Everything feels more intense with an abandonment wound.

 

We might find ourselves being “the anxious one” in the relationship, or attracting

partners who are avoidant (or they might seem avoidant to us because any space they

take during conflict or otherwise feels like abandonment.)

 

Learning to self-soothe when we’re triggered can help us come home to our bodies when

we’re overwhelmed with emotion.

 

It can also help us shift any anxious-avoidant, push-pull patterns that may be going on in

our intimate relationship as well as overcome any addictions or “numbing techniques”

we may resort to when we’re really upset.

 

Things like drinking alcohol, smoking cannabis, having sex, binge-eating, shopping or

watching Netflix are some of the ways we numb out. (None of these things are inherently

“bad” but like anything, we can overdo it as a means of escape.)

 

When we have an abandonment wound, we may perceive minor upsets as a more

significant threat and struggle to maintain our center in the midst of conflict.

 

Even if the threat isn’t real, these moments can feel terrifying and trigger a deep fear of

abandonment and loss.

 

We may feel like we need someone to save us from our big emotions. We might feel as

though the walls are caving in on us; we might over-react, or make demands of our

partner from a place of urgency or fear.

 

We might panic if our partner needs space, or assume that conflict means the

relationship is over. We might feel an overwhelming urge to fix the problem now and

become bitter and resentful if our partner isn’t ready.

 

If this happens to you, you are not broken. You are not crazy. You have an abandonment

wound and an inner-child that needs tending to.

 

Are you tired of playing out the same relationship patterns over and over?

 

Our relationship patterns stem from our earliest childhood experiences. It’s here we

learned our relationship patterns, unhealthy strategies to receive and keep love,

developed the wounds that we consistently try to heal through another’s love, and our

lack of boundaries that keep us feeling scared in our relationships.

 

During this 5-week transformational hypnotherapy journey, we will heal your

relationship patterns once and for all.

 

Week 1: Identify your relationship patterns and attachment style.

 

Week 2: Discover what’s holding you back from receiving the love you deserve. Also

known as your Relationship Shadow.

 

Week 3: Healing the abandonment wound. Whether you are anxious or avoidant, we all

have an abandonment wound that needs healing.

 

Week 4: Creating healthy boundaries in relationships so that you feel safe and secure

with yourself and others. 

 

Week 5: Opening your heart to healthy love.

3 Free Gifts to Kick-Start Your Healing Journey

 

Receive these three free audio hypnosis sessions when you register to support you right

now before we begin our journey together.

($60 Value)

Can’t make it live? All sessions are available for on-demand replay.

Heal Today!

Kelly Bearer, MA, ACHT

I’m an advanced certified hypnotherapist and professional counselor who works with adults, adolescents, and pre-teens to overcome addictions, heal past traumas, conquer fear, fix relationships, find happiness and improve careers. Hypnotherapy works to heal your external issues, while also rewiring, updating and optimizing your internal programming, enabling you to live the life you most want for yourself – free of limiting beliefs, self-sabotaging behaviors, unhealthy patterns, and negative habits. I offer sessions both online and in person at my Boulder, Colorado office. I also offer a 6-week weight loss program called Trim-Life. And I have created an online hypnosis library called HypnoSpace where you can download hypnosis sessions on a variety of topics all geared to help you heal in an instant.